Kesuvos Chart #1
Chart for Kesuvos Daf 4a
WHEN MAY AN AVEL GET MARRIED? (TOSFOS DH Aval)
| (A) NESU'IN |
(B) BE'ILAH |
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| 1 | AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE WHO HAS NO CHILDREN |
After 30 days (Ri) After 7 days (R"T) (1) |
After 30 days (Ri) After 7 days (R"T) |
| 2 | AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE WHO HAS SMALL CHILDREN |
After 7 days | After 30 days |
| AN AVEL WHO HAS GROWN CHILDREN |
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| 3 | AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE | After 3 Regalim (2) | After 3 Regalim |
| 4 | AN AVEL FOR OTHER RELATIVES | After 30 days | After 30 days |
| 5 | AN AVEL FOR HIS FATHER OR MOTHER |
After 30 days (3) | After 30 days |
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FOOTNOTES:
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(1) Tosfos in our Sugya rejects the view of Rabeinu Tam based on the Beraisa in Maseches Semachos. However, Tosfos in Yevamos (43b) resolves the opinion of Rabeinu Tam, and the Shulchan Aruch (YD 392:3) rules that one may rely on the opinion of Rabeinu Tam in circumstances of loss.
(2) See Moed Katan 23a and Tosfos there for the reason.
(3) Regarding attending the Simchah of the Nesu'in of someone else, Tosfos raieses the possibility that it is permissible for an Avel to attend even within 30 days.