KESUVOS 4 (17 Shevat) - Dedicated by Mrs. Idelle Rudman in memory of Harav Reuven Moshe Rudman ben Harav Yosef Tuvia Rudman, who passed away 17 Shevat 5766, in honor of his ninth Yahrzeit.

Kesuvos Chart #1

Chart for Kesuvos Daf 4a

WHEN MAY AN AVEL GET MARRIED? (TOSFOS DH Aval)

(A)
NESU'IN
(B)
BE'ILAH
1 AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE
WHO HAS NO CHILDREN
After 30 days (Ri)
After 7 days (R"T) (1)
After 30 days (Ri)
After 7 days (R"T)
2 AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE
WHO HAS SMALL CHILDREN
After 7 days After 30 days
AN AVEL WHO HAS
GROWN CHILDREN
3 AN AVEL FOR HIS WIFE After 3 Regalim (2) After 3 Regalim
4 AN AVEL FOR OTHER RELATIVES After 30 days After 30 days
5 AN AVEL FOR HIS
FATHER OR MOTHER
After 30 days (3) After 30 days
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FOOTNOTES:

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(1) Tosfos in our Sugya rejects the view of Rabeinu Tam based on the Beraisa in Maseches Semachos. However, Tosfos in Yevamos (43b) resolves the opinion of Rabeinu Tam, and the Shulchan Aruch (YD 392:3) rules that one may rely on the opinion of Rabeinu Tam in circumstances of loss.

(2) See Moed Katan 23a and Tosfos there for the reason.

(3) Regarding attending the Simchah of the Nesu'in of someone else, Tosfos raieses the possibility that it is permissible for an Avel to attend even within 30 days.

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