1)

(a)The Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin' states that, if the Noder stipulated that, unless his friend accepts a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine on behalf of his son, he (the Noder) will not receive any benefit from him, the Neder does not require Hatarah. Why not?

(b)What can we infer from this Mishnah?

(c)How do we try to prove from there that the Rabanan argue with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov? What makes us believe that the author cannot be Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov?

1)

(a)The Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin' states that, if the Noder stipulated that, unless his friend accepts a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine on behalf of his son, he (the Noder) will not receive any benefit from him, the Neder does not require Hatarah - because the Mudar can say that since the Madir only meant his Kavod, as far as he is concerned, he considers it as if he had received the wheat and the wine.

(b)We can infer from this Mishnah - that if not for that reason, the Neder would require nullification (in spite of the fact that it seems to be a case of Nidrei Ziruzin).

(c)We try to prove from there that the Rabanan argue with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov - because, we contend, they must be the author of the Beraisa, since, if it was Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov, then the Neder ought not to require Hatarah, any more than the case in our Mishnah, because it is Nidrei Ziruzin.

2)

(a)We conclude that the author could just as well be Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov. Why might he be inclined to agree that this is not a case of Nidrei Ziruzin?

(b)Some say that we cannot apply the same Sevara in our Mishnah in the case of Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov ('Af ha'Rotzeh Lehadir es Chaveiro she'Yochal Etzlo ... ') because there the Neder comes to forbid Hana'ah on the Mudar, and not on the Madir (as it does in this case). What do others say?

2)

(a)We conclude that the author could just as well be Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov - who might well be inclined to agree that this is not a case of Nidrei Ziruzin, because the Noder can say 'I am not a dog, who only receives and does not give (in which case, he really means the Neder to be effective).

(b)Some say that we cannot apply the same Sevara in our Mishnah in the case of Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov ('Af ha'Rotzeh Lehadir es Chaveiro she'Yochal Etzlo ... '), because there the Neder comes to forbid Hana'ah on the Mudar, and not on the Madir (as it does in this case). According to others, it is not applicable - because it is only in this case, were the Noder is giving the Mudar a large gift, indicating that the Mudar must have once done him a big favor, that he will say 'I am not a dog ... '; whereas in our Mishnah he is merely inviting him for one meal, something that people do without necessarily giving something in exchange, and the Sevara 'I am not a dog ... ' will not apply.

3)

(a)Rebbi Meir and the Rabanan argue in the Seifa (of the Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin') in the reverse case to the previous one (when the Madir forbids the Mudar to have Hana'ah from him unless he gives his son a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine. Like before, the Chachamim do not require Hatarah in this case. Why is that?

(b)Why, in spite of the inference, indicating that this is not a case of Nidrei Ziruzin, could the author of this Mishnah too, be Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov? What makes this case different than the case in our Mishnah ('Af ha'Rotzeh Lehadir es Chaveiro she'Yochal Etzlo ... ')?

3)

(a)Rebbi Meir and the Rabanan argue in the Seifa (of the Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin') in the reverse case to the previous one (when the Madir forbids the Mudar to have Hana'ah from him unless he gives his son a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine). Like before, the Chachamim do not require Hatarah in this case - because this time it is the Noder who can say to the Mudar 'It is as if I received the wheat and the wine from you' (Hareini k'Niskabalti).

(b)In spite of the inference, indicating that this is not a case of Nidrei Ziruzin, the author of this Mishnah too, be Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov. What makes this case different than the case in our Mishnah ('Af ha'Rotzeh Lehadir es Chaveiro she'Yochal Etzlo ... ') is - the fact that the Noder can claim 'I am not a king, who can keep on giving without receiving'.

4)

(a)What does Rebbi Meir say in the Seifa?

(b)Does he also argue in the Reisha?

(c)What will be the Din in that case if ...

1. ... the Mudar claims that the Madir made the Neder with his honor in mind, and the Madir says that quite to the contrary, it was his own honor that he had in mind?

2. ... the Madir agrees with the Mudar that he made the Neder with the honor of the Mudar in mind?

(d)Then in which case does Rebbi Meir argue with the Rabanan?

4)

(a)Rebbi Meir says in the Seifa - that the Mudar is forbidden to having any Hana'ah from the Madir until he gives his son the specified amount of wheat and wine.

(b)He also argues in the Reisha - forbidding the Madir to have Hana'ah from the Mudar until the latter accepts the wheat and the wine on behalf of his son.

(c)The Din in that case, if ...

1. ... the Mudar claims that the Madir made the Neder with his honor in mind, and the Madir says that quite to the contrary, he had his own honor in mind will be - that the Neder will be valid (even according to the Rabanan).

2. ... the Madir agrees with the Mudar that he made the Neder with the honor of the Mudar in mind, will be - that the Neder will not require Hatarah (even according to Rebbi Meir).

(d)Rebbi Meir argues with the Rabanan - in a case of Stam, which Rebbi Meir considers like the former case, and the Rabanan like the latter.

5)

(a)Both Mishnayos speak when the sons (on whose behalf the wheat and wine are being given) are living with their father. In which way will the Din differ if the sons (on whose behalf the wheat and wine are being given) are grown-up and no longer living with their father?

(b)What distinction does the Rashba draw between the case under discussion and a similar case where the Noder forbids Hana'ah on his friend, in the event that he visits a certain place?

(c)Is the Rashba's opinion unanimous?

5)

(a)Both Mishnayos speak when the sons (on whose behalf the wheat and wine are being given) are living with their father. If they are grown-up and no longer living with their father - then the Noder has their benefit in mind (not the Mudar or the Noder). Consequently, it would be up to the sons to say 'Hareini k'Niskabalti' and not the fathers.

(b)The Rashba - confines the possibility of saying 'Hareini k'Niskabalti' (which render the Neder void) to the case under discussion (where the Neder requires the Mudar or the Noder to give something, and where it would in theory, have been possible to return the object anyway), but not to a case where the Noder forbids Hana'ah on his friend in the event that he visits a certain place, because should he contravene the Neder and go there, how can one possibly say that it is as if he had not gone?

(c)The Rashba's opinion however - is not unanimous. There are some who hold that if the Noder or the Mudar say that the initial Neder was made in order to satisfy the wishes of whichever party, and he no longer minds whether he goes or not, it is as if his wish has been fulfilled.

6)

(a)What does Mar Keshisha brei d'Rav Chisda extrapolate from the Mishnah later, which presents 'Nidrei Onsin' as when someone forbids his property on his friend unless he eats by him, and he or his son falls ill (preventing him from fulfilling the condition)?

(b)How does he attempt to prove from there that the Rabanan argue with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov?

(c)We reconcile the Mishnah with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov however, by establishing the case 'de'Zamina Adrei li'Mezamna'. What is the case?

(d)Why is this not then considered 'Nidrei Ziruzin'?

6)

(a)Mar Keshisha brei d'Rav Chisda extrapolates from the Mishnah later, which presents Nidrei Onsin as when someone forbids his property on his friend unless he eats by him, and he or his son falls ill (preventing him from fulfilling the condition) - that had the Oneis not occurred, the Neder would be valid.

(b)He attempts to prove from there that the Rabanan argue with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov - because Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov would consider this to be a case of Nidrei Ziruzin.

(c)We reconcile the Mishnah with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov however, by establishing the case 'd'Zamina Adrei li'Mezamna' - meaning that it is the Mudar who asks the Madir to invite him, and then, when he condescends, he asks him to reinforce his promise with a Neder.

(d)This is not a case of 'Nidrei Ziruzin' - because it is not the Noder who is trying to convince the Mudar to eat by him, but who is simply complying with the Mudar's request, which has nothing to do with Nidrei Ziruzin.

7)

(a)In a Beraisa, Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov considers Nidrei Ziruzin a case of someone who forbids on himself any Hana'ah from his friend, unless his friend comes to eat by him fresh bread and a hot drink, and his friend flatly refuses. Why does Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov use the Lashon 'Yeser al Kein'?

(b)What do the Rabanan say?

(c)How have we now resolved at least one of the two She'eilos that we originally asked?

(d)And how do we know that they argue even in the original case of Nidrei Ziruzin, even when the Sevara 'Lav Kalba Ana' does not apply?

7)

(a)In a Beraisa, Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov considers Nidrei Ziruzin a case of someone who forbids on himself any Hana'ah from his friend, unless his friend comes to eat by him fresh bread and a hot drink, and his friend flatly refuses. Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov uses the Lashon 'Yeser al Ken - because he considers this to be an extension of Nidrei Ziruzin, which he holds despite the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' (assuming the Sevara for this to be because a person simply does not like receiving without giving, as we explained earlier), which we originally thought overrides that of Nidrei Ziruzin.

(b)The Rabanan disagree with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov. According to them - the Neder stands.

(c)We have now resolved at least one of the two She'eilos that we originally asked - having ascertained that the Rabanan do indeed argue with Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov ...

(d)... even in the original case of Nidrei Ziruzin (despite the fact that the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana' does not apply there) - because 'v'Lo Hodu Lo Chachamim' implies that they argue with him completely.

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8)

(a)Rav Huna rules like Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov. This pertains even to the first case (our Mishnah) maybe because of a tradition that the Amora'im had. What other reason is there to say that Rav Huna was referring to our Mishnah (and not to the Beraisa exclusively)?

(b)Why, on the other hand, might it make no difference whether Rav Huna's ruling pertains to the Beraisa or to our Mishnah?

(c)We just concluded that, at the end of the day, Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov classifies a Neder as Nidrei Ziruzin even against the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... '. What will he say in the case of such a Neder against the Sevara 'Lav Malka Ana ... '?

8)

(a)Rav Huna rules like Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov. This pertains even to the first case (our Mishnah) maybe because of a tradition that the Amora'im had. Alternatively - he is more like to have referred to the Mishnah than to a Beraisa, because the Amora'im were more conversant with the Mishnahs than they were with the Beraisos.

(b)On the other hand, it might make no difference whether Rav Huna's ruling pertains to the Beraisa or to our Mishnah - because the purpose of the first She'eilah was to lead on to the second one, because if they do argue, perhaps the Halachah is like them (seeing as they are in the majority). Whereas now that Rav Huna has ruled like Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov in the Beraisa, it no longer makes any difference whether they agree in our Mishnah or not.

(c)We just concluded that, at the end of the day, Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov classifies a Neder as Nidrei Ziruzin even against the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... '. In the case of such a Neder against the Sevara 'Lav Malka Ana, however - he abides by what we originally said (that 'Lav Malka Ana ...' overrides Nidrei Ziruzin).

9)

(a)We just made a distinction between Nidrei Ziruzin against the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' (where Nidrei Ziruzin overrides the Sevara) on the one hand, and against the Sevara of 'Lav Malka Ana ... ' (where it is the Sevara which overrides Nidrei Ziruzin) on the other. This will be the case if the reason for 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' is because a person simply does not like receiving without giving. What will be the Din if we ascribe it to the size of the Matanah (a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine - as we explained above)?

(b)This latter opinion is that of the Ramban. How do we corroborate his opinion from the Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin' ('Konam she'Eini Neheneh Lach Im I Ata Notel l'Bincha Kur shel Chitin ... Harei Zeh Yachol Lehatir es Nidro ... ' that we quoted above)?

9)

(a)We just made a distinction between Nidrei Ziruzin against the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' (where Nidrei Ziruzin overrides the Sevara) on the one hand, and against the Sevara of 'Lav Malka Ana ... ' (where it is the Sevara which overrides Nidrei Ziruzin. This will be the case if the reason for 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' is because a person simply does not like receiving without giving. If however, we ascribe it to the size of the Matanah (a Kur of wheat and two barrels of wine - as we explained above) - then there is no reason to retract from the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' (seeing as, the last Beraisa that we quoted [where the Noder forbade Hana'ah on himself, unless his friend came to eat by him fresh bread and a hot drink] deals only with a small gift and there is no reason for it to override Nidrei Ziruzin). Consequently, both Sevaros 'Lav Kalba Ana ... ' and Lav Malka Ana' will still apply, and the Neder will stand (even according to Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov).

(b)This latter opinion is that of the Ramban, whose opinion we corroborate from the Mishnah in 'Konam Yayin' ('Konam she'Eini Neheneh Lach Im I Ata Notel l'Bincha Kur shel Chitin ... Harei Zeh Yachol Lehatir es Nidro ... ' that we quoted above). This is because - according to the first explanation (which maintains that, according to Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov, Nidrei Ziruzin overrides the Sevara of 'Lav Kalba Ana ... '), the author of this Stam Mishnah must be the Rabanan (who do hold of Nidrei Ziruzin). Then how can we rule like Rebbi Eliezer ben Yakov - who argues with the Rabanan in a Beraisa, in face of a Stam Mishnah?

10)

(a)Our Mishnah states 'Nidrei Havai: Amar Im Lo Ra'isi b'Derech ha'Zeh k'Olei Mitzrayim, Im Lo Ra'isi Nachash k'Koras Beis ha'Bad'. Consequently, the fruit that he forbade if he did not witness these spectacles is permitted. Why does the Tana find it necessary to insert two cases in our Mishnah? What is the difference between them?

(b)What is the Chidush of the second case? Why would we not have known it from the first one?

(c)The Beraisa states that although Nidrei Havai are void, Shevu'os Havai are not (according to our version of the Beraisa). He cannot be referring to when someone says 'Shevu'ah Im Lo Ra'isi b'Derech ha'Zeh Mida'am'. Why not?

(d)How does Abaye then establish the Beraisa?

10)

(a)'Nidrei Havai: Amar Im Lo Ra'isi b'Derech ha'Zeh k'Olei Mitzrayim, Im Lo Ra'isi Nachash k'Koras Beis ha'Bad', and the fruit that he forbade if he did not witness these spectacles, is permitted. The Tana finds it necessary to insert two cases in our Mishnah - because the first case is one of exaggeration (since people tend to speak of a large gathering of people in this way); whereas the second case is simply impossible (seeing as there is no such thing as a snake that is Taruf - which will be explained later in the Sugya).

(b)The Chidush of the second case is - that even though he certainly did not see such a sight, the fruit is nevertheless permitted (which we would not know from the first case, where, based on the presumption that people tend to exaggerate, his Shevu'ah is Emes). The reason for this is that, had he really meant to forbid the fruit, then he would have done so without connecting them to the snake that he claims to have seen.

(c)The Tana states that although Nidrei Hava'i are void, Shevu'os Hava'i are not (according to our version of the Beraisa). He cannot be referring to when someone says 'Shevu'ah Im Lo Ra'isi b'Derech ha'Zeh Mida'am' - because he is not forbidding anything with those words, in which case it is not a Shevu'ah.

(d)Abaye establishes the Beraisa - when he says, 'Shevu'ah she'Ra'isi ba'Derech ha'Zeh Mida'am.'

11)

(a)On what grounds are Shevu'os Havai more stringent than Nidrei Havai and therefore valid (according to some texts, they are void, just like Nidrei Havai, only we would have at least thought that they are valid more than Nedarim are)?

(b)Why does the Tana of our Mishnah not include the case of ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi Gamal ha'Pore'ach b'Avir' (which it does mention in Shevu'os)?

11)

(a)Shevu'os Havai are more stringent than Nidrei Havai and therefore valid (according to some texts, they are void, just like Nidrei Havai, only we would have at least thought that they are valid more than Nedarim are) - on the grounds that Shevu'os are generally more stringent than Nedarim, as we learned above.

(b)The Tana of our Mishnah does not include the case of ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi Gamal ha'Pore'ach b'Avir' (which it does mention in Shevu'os) - because it has already presented the case of ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi k'Koros Beis ha'Bad', to which it is similar (and the Tana is only interested in presenting one example of each of the two cases of Nidrei Havai, as we explained above).

12)

(a)Rava disagrees with Abaye's explanation on two scores: firstly because it would then be obvious that the Shevu'ah would be void (according to the text in the Beraisa that compares Shevu'os Hava'i to Nidrei Hava'i). What is his second bone of contention with Abaye?

(b)So how does Rava establish the Beraisa?

12)

(a)Rava disagrees with Abaye's explanation on two scores: firstly, because it would then be obvious that the Shevu'ah will be void (according to the text in the Beraisa that compares Shevu'os Hava' to Nidrei Havai). Secondly - because according to Abaye, the case of Shevu'os Havai is quite different than that of Nidrei Havai, whereas the Tana stated that in the case where the one is valid, the other is not (implying that they both speak in the same case).

(b)Rava therefore establishes the Beraisa - when he forbids fruit on himself with a Shevu'ah, but stipulates ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi b'Derech ha'Zeh k'Olei Mitzrayim ... '.

13)

(a)According to the alternative version, the fruit (which he connected to his Shevu'ah) is actually permitted. Does that mean that he will not receive Malkus at all?

(b)What Chidush is the Tana then coming to teach us? Why might we have thought that Shevu'os Havai should be valid?

(c)On what grounds did Ravina think that according to either text, the Shevu'ah ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi k'Olei Mitzrayim' should be considered a valid Shevu'ah?

(d)What did Rav Ashi reply?

13)

(a)According to the alternative text, the fruit (which he connected to his Shevu'ah) is actually permitted. This does not mean that he will not receive Malkus at all - because, in the case of she'Lo Ra'isi Nachash k'Koros Beis ha'Bad' (which is impossible), he will receive Malkus for making a Shevu'os Shav.

(b)The Tana is then coming to teach us - that even though, by permitting the fruit (a sign that it as not his intention to do so, but to stress what he saw), he will receive Malkus for a Shevu'as Shav (which he would not by a Neder Shav), we nevertheless permit it. This is due to the fact that he cannot have meant to forbid the fruit, because if he had, he would not have connected his Shevu'ah to what he saw (as we explained above).

(c)Ravina thought that according to either text, the Shevu'ah ' ... Im Lo Ra'isi k'Olei Mitzrayim' should be considered a valid Shevu'ah - since he may well have been referring to a nest of ants that he came across.

(d)To which Rav Ashi replied - that Nedarim and Shevu'os follow the vernacular (as we shall now see), and it is not the norm to refer to a nest of ants in this way.