1)
Why did he say "u'Mah Yacholti Asos Kachem"? He already said (verse 2) "Mah Asisi Atah Kachem"!
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Rashi: What could I do that would be as important as your act?
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Malbim: Your act showed more Gevurah than mine; it is attributed to Hashem ("b'Yedchem Nasan Elokim"); I could not do so.
2)
What is "Rucham"?
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Radak: It is their spirit of anger, like "Al Tevahel b'Ruchachah Lich'os" (Koheles 8:3).