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Who came to whom?
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Rashi: Na'aman came to his master, Melech Aram. Radak - this was after his wife told him the girl's words.
2)
Why did Na'aman accept her words?
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Malbim (3): Na'aman understood that his Tzara'as is due to the Navi's anger. He thought that it is because Na'aman killed Melech Yisrael.
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Why does it say "ka'Zos vecha'Zos"? It is enough to say ka'Zos!
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Malbim: He made inferences from her words. Due to the anger of [the current] Melech Yisrael, because Na'aman killed the king's father, he commanded the Navi to afflict Na'aman with Tzara'as.