1)
What is the meaning of "va'Ydaber l'Ishah"?
1.
Rashi citing Targum Yonasan: He spoke to her relatives about her [so they would give her to him - Radak #1].
2.
Radak #2: He spoke to her herself, that she should marry him.
3.
Malbim: Her appearance was already good in his eyes. Now he wanted to see if also her intellect and Midos were pleasing to him; "va'Tishar" - they were.