Rav per Rashi feels that with two men one can marry her because the one willing to give a get with no resistance because he's afraid of recognition or the father remembering.
My concern which doesn't appear to come up, with one individual we are concerned his yetzer overcomes him so he claims- has to give a get.
1. If we're concerned about the admission of being the mekadesh being motivated by his carnal desires as opposed to being legitimate, how does this person's get effective?
2. Why aren't we concerned with two, that it's a double yetzer, he wants to marry her, his friend will give her a get so not only can he marry her but her kesubah is now 100 zuz instead of 200?
Avrahom , United States
Dear Avraham,
Even if he claims he married her and maybe it is only his Yetzer but if he gives a Kosher Get it certainly works even on the side that he actually married her.
We have the rule that a person only sins for himself (Ein Adam Choteh Velo Lo). So the second person will not help him in his plot.
All the best,
Reuven Weiner