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what was esther thinking when she attempted to accuse Achasvarosh as the one resposible for the destruction c"v of klal yisroel
See the VILNA GA'ON's commentary on the Megilah on that verse. He writes that Esther, whenever she spoke to the king, concentrated on Hash-m. Here, when telling the king about the threat that the Jewish people faced, she slipped into a conversation with Hash-m, and thus she was pointing a finger, so to speak, at Hash-m for bringing this threat upon the Jewish people. She was not accusing Achashverosh.
Mordecai