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What is "me'Chamas Achicha Yakov"?
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Rashi: Due to the injustice that you did to Yakov. Malbim - due to this, you will be covered with shame in the past Churbanos, and in the end you will be cut off permanently in the future Churban, which is eternal.
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Radak: In Churban Bayis Sheni, the Edomim did evil to Yisrael. The Navi prophesized that they will do evil to Yisrael, and Hashem will pay (punish) them at the end of days; He will eradicate them from the world.
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Radak citing Ibn Ezra: This refers to Churban Bayis Rishon; Bnei Edom did evil to Yisrael in their exile via Nebuchadnetzar.