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2) THE THREE BLESSINGS A MAN MUST RECITE EVERY DAY
QUESTION: The Gemara quotes a Beraisa in which Rebbi Yehudah (according to the correct Girsa) states that a man must recite the following three blessings every day: "she'Asani Yisrael" ("that He made me a Jew"), "she'Lo Asani Ishah" ("that He did not make me a woman"), and "she'Lo Asani Bor" ("that He did not make me an ignoramus"). The Gemara relates that Rav Acha bar Yakov heard his son saying "she'Lo Asani Bor" and instructed him to say instead "she'Lo Asani Aved" ("that He did not make me a servant").
Although it appears in our text of the Gemara, the blessing of "she'Asani Yisrael" is not found in the texts of the RIF and ROSH (to Berachos 60b). In their texts, as well as in the text of the Tosefta (Berachos 6:23), the blessing reads "she'Lo Asani Goiy" ("that He did not make me a Nochri"). This is the custom today. (Jews of German Jewish descent say "she'Lo Asani Nochri.")
Why do we say the blessing in the negative form? In the other blessings, we praise Hash-m as "Malbish Arumim," "Matir Asurim," etc., in the positive form. Why do we not say, "she'Asani Yisrael," as the text of our Gemara reads?
ANSWERS:
(a) The BACH (OC 46:7) quotes those who give an answer based on the Gemara in Eruvin (13b). The Gemara there concludes that it would have been better for a person had he not been created. (TOSFOS there (DH No'ach) explains that this refers only to those who do not become Tzadikim. It does not apply to those who develop themselves into Tzadikim.) The three Berachos that Rebbi Yehudah mentions are reminders for a person to consider this; he should realize that now that he has been created, he must praise Hash-m for not making him these types of people. The Bach himself comments that this is a "nice Derashah."
(b) The Bach says that if one would recite the Berachah of "she'Asani Yisrael" in the positive form first, he would not be able to recite the other Berachos in the positive form -- i.e. "she'Asani Ish" ("that He made me a man) and "she'Asani Ben Chorin" (that He made me a free man). This is because the connotation of "Yisrael" is a free man, not a servant and not a woman. Since our intention is to praise Hash-m for every individual aspect for which we are thankful, we do not want to make one general Berachah instead of three specific Berachos.
A Halachic discussion ensues from the reasoning of the Bach. The MAGEN AVRAHAM (OC 46:9) says that according to the Bach, it seems that if one mistakenly said "she'Asani Yisrael," he may no longer make the Berachos of "she'Lo Asani Ishah" and "she'Lo Asani Aved," since those praises are included in the Berachah of "she'Asani Yisrael." The Magen Avraham argues that this is not the Halachah. He says that women are included in the term "Yisrael" (they are just not included in the term "Bnei Yisrael"), and thus "she'Ani Yisrael" would not include the praise of "she'Lo Asani Ishah."
The MISHNAH BERURAH (OC 46:15) cautions that due to the opinion of the Bach, one should be careful not to say by mistake "she'Asani Yisrael." It seems that the Mishnah Berurah maintains that saying "she'Asani Yisrael" would render one unable to say the other Berachos due to the rule of "Safek Berachos l'Hakel."
(c) The TAZ answers that these Berachos are meant to praise Hash-m for the creation of all of the other types of people (Nochrim, servants, and women) as well. He explains that if the text of the blessing would be "she'Asani Yisrael," it would imply that this is the only type of person necessary in the world. That, however, is not true. Hash-m created the world with a necessity for Nochrim, and certainly with a necessity for servants and Jewish women who are obligated in many of the Mitzvos. We must be thankful that they exist. At the same time that we express our gratitude for not being created as a Nochri, servant, or woman, we also must acknowledge their necessity in the world. The Taz explains that this is why women say "she'Asani ki'Retzono" ("that He made me according to His will"). Just as men acknowledge in their Berachah the great kindness that Hash-m did by creating women in the world, women also must acknowledge that they are a great creation and are created in accordance with Hashem's will. (This explanation seems to be the opposite of the explanation of the TUR there.) (Y. Montrose)

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